A break

I was somewhat disappointed from my views from last few years,lot has been happened in those years,I still getting stronger and stonger emotionally day by day.

I got married in 2016 April and now living happily here in dream city Mumbai,my dreams are big want to chase them,I quite had no time to write a post in last few years but its my dream to write and my passion too,I will achieve it.

Last 3 years were full of joy with new family,Now i have a year old baby boy "Parth"who is a copy of reel in me my happiness my energy and many more,I feel great when I was around him,feel strong when returned from hectic work.

There was all day routine i.e. from office to work and from work to office, I feel very great when I post something. I feel energized when I write some thing.

Last month I was at my native place at konkan for a week, I spend my time with my parents and ofcourse with nature, I always love to do , my little one always with me,we enjoyed gossiping, we enjoyed a night walk on a grass, I enjoyed a rose smell,enjoyed a early morning, enjoyed a energized food which my mother made every day of my choice :),

My hometown Mandangad is filled with greenery all around always and a specially now days is a season of Mangoes and cashews, At my home my father have chickens as a pet,He take care of them,there are two cock & 3 hen in their yard, early in the morning my mother used to feed them some grains and water, then she clean up yard and fill water for house use every day,my father always help her in these work,we have small shop at our home's front side, after retirement from government service papa like to have small shop of small household things and some snacks & candies of little ones,he enjoy to do this all the day....

More to happen with "Cappuccino"

Recently I read the article on a most interesting and more energetic and a common but refreshing moment of a day i.e. "a teatime", whole the way all of us keep oneself busy in a work, or if our desk is empty we prefer to fill it with a cup of Cappuccino, means we prefer to spend some moments at  all of us favorite place, coffee center! most interesting thing about  this place is that, it is a place where we reveal our sorrows, our happiness our difficulties with our friends, relatives, so that I would like to call this as "more can be happen with  a Cappuccino",we can share our workload, our laziness, our freshness with a cup of Cappuccino, everyone of us wait for this moment in a whole day,most interesting thing is that, who don't like also join for a moment! interesting! now a days official messaging also used to aware for a break! to come altogether for the same, I feel it is most interesting and one can refresh mind for the workload easily,this moment remind us to wish our best friends, to remember old beautiful days, to chat with friends, to gossip with parents, many more...

It is the best time we all of us would like to spare with friends, to escape from continuous hammering of boss, continuous barking ;), some of us make more time than allotted, we always give a reason that, it is a teatime!, in that time one to hesitate to use bad words!we all feel  we are the" rular"for  a moment,that moment give us extreme freshness, a lot laugh and a feeling as a boss, we make ourself what we want for a minute! we make our failures as a success only with a cup of tea! who manage to manage this moment can manage everything in a day!

In persuit of Happiness...

"Happiness"is the thing which is long lasting, if created within our self by the depth of satisfaction. Each and every individual find their happiness in doing things which they want to do.According to human being, happiness is the state of the mind...If we think that we are happy then we are!...If we think we are not happy then...It will look like at it is!

I read a book, in that, author written about the behaviour of the butterflies...colourful, allways busy in their work...a beautiful creativity!...when we look towards a butterfly, we feels fresh...awesome feeling...how beautiful they are?...nice...they always keep themselves busy in their work...but that scene gives very much satisfaction to our eyes...writer have written that, If you want to feel a fresh and awesome feeling, then must go to a garden full with flowers...where you find greenery all around you and there is no place for the nervousness!...why we feel very fresh and energetic when we go to a garden?...because naturally a human being always have a tendency to find the happiness in small things which are never lasting in nature...always keep their place in our mind and heart!...when we go to a garden we see childrens, pet animals,all living and enjoying things all around us...it feels great!...

Writer says, " I find my happiness in very very small things, in the flower,in the smile of children, in the  beautiful view of the nature, in the blue empty sky, in flying birds, in the height of the mountains, in the flowing water of the river, in raindrops on the street, in dispersed light of the street in the rainy season, in the rangoli, in front of the house, in feeding of cow, in walking with bare feet over the ground with grass all around, having droplets on the leaf of each grass, in the high tide of the seashore...anywhere....in anything"...

" Attitude is the little thing, which makes the big difference!"

A Mumbai Local...

If your friend or relatives are staying in Mumbai then you will not imagine Mumbai without" Local Train"...Local Trains are veins of Mumbai, without Local Mumbai should be considered as dead...By area wise there are three different regions considered ... Harbor, Central, Western....Now days central line is connected with western by "Metro"...It is very happiest thing for the Mumbaikar, It will save times and money also....For Some people Local Train is place for their earnings...They earn some money by their small business.....as by selling snacks, girl's ornaments and many more.... Girls compartment seems to be full all the time by hawkers ....For long distance traveling people decides their groups, they seems to sit in the same compartment every day....Local Train is always seems with heavy rush, except Sunday's and national holidays...

In rainy season, traveling by local gives awesome experience!...Sometimes foreigner also unable to keep themselves away by Local Train, they also travel....Our Mumbaikar gives them respect, and all the time Mumbaikar feels proud to help them, or to guide them....Local train platforms sometimes feels important like "a shelter"....Main thing which I forgot to notice you, a T.C.(Ticket Checker) is a main "Hitler" of the platforms!... :) ... He will check our ticket at the exact time when we don't have!....I have caught by him two times!...If third time he caught me, then definitely...he is going to punish me!... :) 

I like western Local very much...the travel from Bandra to Borivali by western railway is really awesome, nice!... rush is seems to be always at the highest peak!...

"Being a girl" for the society is a CRIME...!!!

From last few days I am very much disappointed from the different things which are happening in Mumbai...and happening in my country!...I feels that being a girl or born as a girl is now a crime for the society...There is no any security in the society for a girl....last week there was a news about a female conductor working at the Kalyan location was teased (I am thinking to use bad words)by a person , at the stage that, the girl admitted in the hospital, I unable to tell a whole story....how can a girl now be ready to work in that profession?....It is our society....lol....In one way our progress says that, our country is developing....but by watching things like that, we will definitely fail to progress...foreign countries are very much developed in such things...they have a strict laws which protect a girl....but "our country protects  crime!"....

someday ago one journalist was also affected by such crime...why this is happening in my country?...how can I expect my security for tomorrow?...If a journalist also unable to live safely in this country...how a common girl or a student can expect?...How a girl will ready to accept profession of journalism in future?...some high personalities over the world respect my country , for the reason , how we , different religious people work or live happily in our country...at one side people pray goddesses and at another side they will not hesitate to tease them!...My country and society is very much rich in the cultural aspects tomorrow is a "Vatpournima day" , It is having very much importance in the Hindu culture, married women pray for the good health of her husband and for the same husband in next 7 lives....how beautiful thought it is!....

Some days ago I was  thinking Mumbai is the safest place for the girls, but I was wrong!...It was safe...now things are changed...lol...There was a time when a lady ruled the world, now there is time ...where it is hard to survive for a lady!...but I think days will change and revolution will come and we proudly able to say that, we live in a country where girls have safety and freedom!...My country gives opportunities for girls and also it gives freedom...where a girl can live safely...I hope so!

It is to be...It's up to me!

Recently I read article about the "happiness - a state of mind". Writer have pointed out different things which we do to search for happiness. I that article writer have explain the different modes of our nervousness state of doing nothing and the state when we feel that we are extremely happy.

Happiness is the state of mind when we feel that, we have not any stress with us, when we think that,we are free to do anything and everything that really we would like to do. Some people find their happiness in reading books, playing, dancing, traveling and many more....If keep searching our happiness then might be we fail in that, but If we create It then definitely we will success in that, I think we don't have to wait for something or someone will bring happiness for us in our life..."We have to create It"....Writer says,We all people have seen a movie "QUEEN"...It also states the same principle of happiness...Writer have pointed out amazing thing which is happening in everyone's life...that we depend on others ,  sometimes or wholly we depend on others life for our happiness, It is wrong...Happiness is a such thing that, we can create without any help!...Independently....

Most of the times people search for the happiness in others at the same time they fail to find It...Everyday the things which we would like to do, decides our everyday peruse for happiness...We do not decide a goal for It...It feels...lol...If we give long lasting time in search of It then definitely we loose our temper or the zest for that one...so we have to keep trying to make day to day happiness, which we find in different smaller things....as we find peace in our daily prayer!....we can find it in playing with small children...gossiping with best friends!...enjoying in rain!...for a while talk with our mother...watching flying birds, at same time feeling like "maybe our next life of bird"....watching favorite program!...in anything what we like to do for us and for others!...which is very simple...

"If it is to be, it's up to me"..... :)

Me and My Konkan...

Now there are Monsoon days...so Its very nice time to talk about Konkan...Its a heaven on the earth...The most beautiful and very much fresh original place in the world...There is a historical importance to Konkan, during Shivaji maharaj days,  lots of Forts were built in the Konkan, I have talked about the same in last Fort post.Most of the time in these days we usually go to our relatives which are at Velas, a village in Mandangad Taluka and Ratnagiri district. It is very nice place...I cannot describe a beauty of  this place in words!...It is very charming!...full of natural view....very beautiful...There is a old home of Nana Fadnis...It gives hostorical Importance to that Vllllage...

One more important think to be notice about the houses of is that, each house is having a small well to the backside of the house and one canal, which provides water to the different farm...It's feels very beautiful when you spend some day's here in such a place!...people from this place are very kind by nature...all the times when foreigner came to study our culture and living style they always support to them. A sarpanch and  some senior citizens from village, feels great when any foreign visitor came to study our culture...Motton-Vade is the most popular non-veg dish in Konkan...beaches over there are very beautiful..and very important thing to that place is it is very close to the Harihareshwar,  It is considered as a "Dakshin Kashi"...

In upcoming days our farmers will ready with their farm, at the time of our school days there was special holiday season of 14 days to bunk school for the reason of farming!...lol....there were also punishment for that but, all were accepted for such a think, my early school days and my school gives me a lot...great friends...nice teachers...and the most important , which gives me awesome thoughts about our own place....

How we forget about our "Alphanso"...a very tasty famous alphanso,a mango famous for taste, look and its use in different dishes, It is the identity of Konkan, all the coastal region starting from Sawantwadi to Mumbai is consider as Konkan,If we see in  traditional view, Ganpati festival and Diwali are the most famous  and very enjoyable festival in this region, Ganapati festival is celebrated during the end of the August, people brings a lord Ganapati at their home and during this season they pray for the happiness for their livings..."LALABAGCHA RAJA"...It is one of the most famous ganapati kept at lalbaug, Mumbai...

I think Mumbai is the very best place to enjoy Sarvajanik Ganapati Festival....at this season security of our Mumbai is always at the highest peak...I will share pics of this festival soon...

This post is written on the request by a reader Emma, USA, thanks Emma for droping  a mail