Ready for the Monsoon!!!

There are few days remaining for the Monsoon, I am waiting, I have done all my plan for the Monsoon I am ready with my umbrella...to be use sometimes......lol.....I want to see railway tracks full with water, I want to hear all busy announcements for delay of the trains....for reschedule of the trains....I want to bunk my office for the reason of heavy rain...:)....I want to see cloudy sky....I want to feel fresh, cool freeze in the air....I want to enjoy the rain with my friends....I want to enjoy a cup of tea with the rain....I want to see greenery in the environment......I want to see birds enjoying in the first rain....Want to see how cars, vehicles managing their routes in the Rainy days....  

I am waiting for the these early rainy days to enjoy at the fullest.....and MUMBAI and hometown are the places where we can enjoy monsoon as we want!....I usually go to my hometown in these early days...as my hometown in konkan so it is the heaven .... It is the one of nice place to feel Monsoon....In these early days there are lots of small waterfalls at the mountains, all the view over there is always full with the greenery and freshness in the air....I am waiting for the Monsoon...

Our duty towards our parents ...

Last month I have seen a program based on a "old age houses"...nowadays It is a new fashion or trend in our society that, they left their parents or in laws at old age houses, Our society is educated or It is being educated all these are contradictory...I think a child who doesn't understood his or her parents, how he/she will understand his/her life partner?... One of my friend who is very rich, having luxurious life, after marriage her husband and she decided to settle in abroad that's why they are going to leave their parents at old age houses...and their parents agreed for that..how?..

How they decided to do that?...our parents do each and every thing for us..they did nothing for their own all they do for us...to fulfill each and every wish, they sometimes sacrifices with all the earnings that they have made in their life...I feel shame about a child who told to their parents, "You have very few day's left in your life, let me enjoy in my way" ...We must not  be so rude to them...Sometimes I see people at platforms begging for food, I feel very bad about them, what Is the reason behind that I don't know but If their own child is the reason, then It will be very Unlucky thing for them,

I seen that program, all were seem to be happy but It was not their real "smile"...If we are married then It is a loyal duty of us to take care our in laws at the same time to give respect to them...for a girl it is very big thing when her in laws accept her, love her, and behave her as she is their daughter...how and what is our education doesn't matter, to let the "SMILE"  live on their faces is our duty...how is their nature rude or anything but we have to be kind and helpful to them, we have to understand them...They have seen dream for us...Be the real hero for them...you are the "angel" for them....

Importance of parents will recognize only by a orphan. They will not ask us for a specious gift but a smile on our face and a dinner with them...When we back to home after a busy day, we simply ask them, "How was their day?", they will feel nice and It will be a happiest moment in whole day for them...Our highest degree will fail if we unable to understand our parents or in laws...Sometimes I think It is better that I belong to a small TOWN ...at least there is nothing happen like these big cities called MUMBAI...almost all the times a girl is very much close to their parents or to their in laws...

Do what you want to do for your parents or for in laws...what they have done for us doesn't matter.....take care there should not be late for good one...TIME will never come back!

A Cup of "Cutin" Chay!!!

 It is a identity of Mumbai Railway Platforms, "A cup of Chay"..nice word , It means a cup of tea, all the railway platform have, different chaiwala's have different taste, which onwards becomes identity for them, same I like the most , I always take a cup of chay and go to office, regularly, actually high society people think that how the cheap!, but it is not so...when we taste that, It feels fresh, the high quality restaurant's tea will not give such a awesome feeling of tea...Actually I was shocked yesterday, by watching, a manager of one of popular IT company to that stall, he was my manager in previous company, strange!...a man who always with his SCODA, with high personalities was at "Chai stall" yesterday...very strange!!!

Basicaly I come to know, what we are and what we have, need not to show, It will realize or recognized by others, how that our manager  with down to earth personality, there are very less people like him...nowadays almost all believe on  "show off" only....all the times the people who are at the high post behave like a common, which is their identity "a uncommon in common"...actually that thing increases business of that stall...

A different and special one...

We feel great when we are different and special in something common (Each individual is special by nature, by hobbies, by thoughts etc)...Yesterday I was across a "Gulmohar Flower" ..as shown in above picture...It is one of the beautiful flower, Red in color...one special thing is that, this flower is having one petal colored, other petals are common RED in color, with one something different with attractive design on a single petal...This is the identity of flower, which makes It special.....These trees adds royal look to the gardens ... In very early hot days these trees looks with greenery...In summer when other trees loose their hope of survival, at the same time these trees wear a blanket of flower, as like teasing to other trees...lol...that see how " I am"... In our childhood we describe these flower as "a flower with one queen petal"

Be simple, be smart,be sharp, be attractive as like this one...I think "Simplicity is the real beauty"....

A Fort...

As there are early rainy days, I suddenly remembered a very nice place in my mind...A Chitradurga fort, in Mandangad, This fort was captured by Shivaji in the battle with Adil Shah. A 400 years old cannon is the major feature of the fort. The fort constitutes a Ganapati Temple and a tank called Thorla Talav.

A view from the fort is very awesome, a one who is having habit to visit a natural place must visit this one...It is really very nice place...You may find additional information as follows,

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mandangad_fort 

Massst Mumbai...

Today's view of Mumbai is awesome...freshhh...It was some what cloudy...wow It's time to rain. In these early day's Mumbai feels us with full of joy and freshness. After some unbearable days now Its time for bearable one... :) It is bearable because Mumbai won yesterday's match..:)...

When we purposely do some things which gives us "SMILE" ... Which makes how naughty and how we are able to change our mood...:)...The same thing which I do with myself is ...I purposely forget my Umbrella in early rainy days...lol... I feel very great in doing so...I  feel the rain ....In such a environment if you are able to enjoy with a cup of tea, then it is awesome thing which we  do ever, one of my friend like cycling in such environment, she always do so, and also let me enjoy with her, she is the best!, she always do the things which she want...One thing I like the most, she always do prepare herself with some plants in early rainy days and do plant them at the monsoon...

"Some feel the rain,some just get Wet"......"Its our life, Its our view "jo chahe FEEL or FILL kar sakate hain"

:)

Music & Nature ....

Music & Nature is one of our best friend...It teaches us how to be, and how to behave .... without these two our life will be like a "most non-interesting thing"...whenever we listen a music which we like the most, We able to fresh our mind ... Whenever we feel stressed we must spend some time with nature, with trees, with birds, with lakes, with most beautiful flower gardens...It will refresh our mind...

While studying if we unable to understand a critical problem, at that time If we do the thing which we like the most, and after some time again if we review that critical problem, It will definitely in the " solved " state...If we  decide to be kind and soft as like flowers..then think...how beautiful It will....:)...All the things will be in right track...I think each and every day ... most beautiful things always happen around us...we have to observe to them, and have to enjoy, all the things in the world will vanish but Nature and Music will remain same, will remain freshh..all the time...We have to learn to use it for the best...

My openion about Third View

One more thing I wish to share.."My opinion about a third person's view "...a third person means a undesirable person or a individual which show interest in any matter,when we do not consider that individual for that matter, at that time it becomes third person to that....unless and until we give importance to that individual. Some of the things which left behind without result must be solve by oneself only, If we add some undesirable people to that, then It will loose importance of reality, and it will become a "PLAY or GAME" only...

According to me we must solve a problem individually, If we have that much of guts with us..:)..I think all the individuals are that much educated nowadays...If we always think for the help, then we will not able to take decisions in future, If someone unable to take decision individually then they have to depend on others, for their opinion or views only...while doing so we must aware about "They are not making use of us, for their REVENGE"...we only give space for third person if and only if we don't believe on ourselves or opposite one...If we have believe then there should not be place for a "Third Person" ....When we show confidence about our decision then only others will believe on us...otherwise .... :)...

If I expect one individual will solve problem, or I believe so...then at that time I expect that , there will not be a third person will Involve in that... in only such situation reality will remain TRUE.... :)

 We have to be confident and let others be confident on us....

Dream for Living....

All the individual around us , each dream for the betterment, for success, I think it is best thing in the world, that we have the power of "Dream", we live few moments, as we would like to live, few seconds which we spent for our dream, gives extreme freshness to us....

I always spend some minutes daily to dream, what I want to be and what I want in my life...I am sure one day I will... :)... I will proud to say, "I am"... :)... I dream to be a good personality, to be kind to others, to be kind to myself..I dream to be happy...

Some people always keep themselves busy in keeping track of their dream, It is good, It doesn't matter how and what extent ...our dream comes true ... but It is half done when we think for that one...

I Pray for help...

In few months MUMBAI taught me everything , about nature of the different people I came across, or I met accidentally...both were unique in their nature. There are different views of people to see each other. We always think that, the person who is opposite to us is happier than ourselves, but it is depend on the thought that " how he/she is watching their own problem".

Most of the times, people play with the emotions, which is very bad...every individual on the earth is having a right to live their life as they want, I think humanity is in to be very helpful to others not in to be teasing or dangerous to others.I always pray that let me keep away from all these things, I pray that let the every person helpful to others, or let every individual a human by nature.

"REVENGE" is very bad word, it should be deleted from our dictionary...sometimes we spoke bad words about others, but these all most all times depends on the situation, for such situation, we must be , we have to forgive and let others to forgive.... I pray ....

Few Words

I usually think that, what we want in our life?...happiness, wealth, health, support...yes these all..but few words that, "don't  fear.I am with you" these few words by our friends or by our family make lots of difference in any situation.

We always feel alone when we are in any stress, in such a situation when anyone say these few words to us we feel relaxed...We think that anyone is with us...with the help of that we can win most critical situation without any failure.

Today I miss my grannie so much (I lost her yesterday), she was very kind by nature,She was not so much educated but she taught us how to face critical situation,from childhood she always say  that, don't fear, face the situation, everyone have to go through tough times, it will not remain same! It  will change, just face it, ...I MISS HER